QUOTE(flowersong @ Sep 20 2006, 12:04 AM)

Richard, I too am very uncomfortable with what is going there. Becky and company really truly believe
what they are doing is what is right. Some churches and families physically beat these beliefs into children.
It's no different than military boot camp except Becky's group do it in a way that they can't get in trouble with the law.
Speaking from personal experience, my siblings and I were forced into "family bible studies" when we
were very young. The focus was that we were bad, we were born sinners and we needed to realize that
and pray for forgiveness, etc. etc. These family bible studies always eneded up with all of us kids crying.
Why ? We didn't understand how we could be so bad and we really didn't understand what we were
supposed to do. We didn't know what the "right" thing was to do. Saying and praying some words so
that we could be forgiven didn't answer our main question of, "what did we do wrong in the first place ?"
I believe some of the kids at Jesus Camp cry just because they don't know what they are SUPPOSED TO DO, or SUPPOSED TO FEEL. There may be some true spiritual awakens in the children, and if true, it is my
opinion, those are the children we don't have to worry about...they won't become "killers for christ".
Their faith or spirituality will continue to evolve and they will eventually see the camp for what it was.
Later, as a teen, AT A CAMP, I was told if I didn't speak in tongues, then I wasn't a Christian. For only
those who have truly been blessed by the holy spirit are truly saved or born again and the sign of that
is the gift of speaking in tongues.
Anyway, I won't share anymore horror stories.....I just agree with what you wrote and have some of
the same concerns.
Flowersong...Thank-you. Sincerely!!!! Your genuiness and willingness to share your background sheds more light on this than the rest of our intellectual insights.
'God is Love' ...'Jesus Loves me this I know' ("Some people physically beat these beliefs into children") What a warped sense of proselytizing these people have. I was fortunate...my folks were loving and caring ...guiding me into the faith at age appropriate times. And I have not strayed from that path ...as the good book says.
Inducing strong guilt feelings in the young who are unable to process those feelings is very damaging in my experience. It almost requires a 'deprogramming'. You have such a splendid sense of practicality and horse sense in regards to things spiritual - that I find myself in total agreement.
Speaking in tongues is for the
weaker of the brethren, because it uplifts only the person him/herself. Check out St. Paul on this (1 Cor. 14) It is definitely not a prerequisite of the normal Christian life. I am not a big fan of glossalalia as a modern witness to the faith. However, it is biblical!
Anyway appreciate your frankness. Great post in my opinion.